Profile:Sohai talpur

Fatima Jawaid

2K15/MC/28          

BS Part III

PROFILE OF A YOUNG ASP

SOHAI TALPUR

The hard work definitely paids off and hard work always does. So was in the case of SohaiTalpur.

A young, relentless and first woman from lower Sindh as a ASP to join police services. Sohai belongs to a lower class from Talpur family from Tando Muhammad Khan district.Sohai did her schooling from Tando Muhammad khan, college from Bahria foundation college Hyderabad.  She did her B.com from ZubaidaGirls College and later she pursued to complete her Master’sinfrom University of Sindh.

She qualified her Central Superior Services (CSS) withastounding success at her first attempt and was told that she would be joining police as an assistant superintendent police (ASP) officer.  Sohai’s family and particularly her father had been his support mechanism.Sohai’s parents were really passionate about her education and wanted her to study.  Though Sohai belongs to stereotype and lower Sindh background her father and her family moved on to nearby town to avoid the taunting statements of her other relatives like criticism and discouragement.  Sohai not only had been her family’s proud but she is also proud of Pakistan and proud of Sindh.

Sohai is the girl of dreams. When asked from her, what she really wanted to become she told, that she was a big dreamer with a lot of dreams for being an doctor, pilot, architect but ceased up to being an police officer.  This doesn’t matter from where  you are dreams are not anyone’s property.

She advices for clearing a CSS exam one must have a focused vision and determination towards themselves by choosing the best majors and supporting subjects. She advises to new and upcoming CSS student to read more and more books to explore more topic as this will be the strong grasp towards their road to success.  

She believes that it is not only the job of men to face the challenges of the country, it is as equal right of a women to come and not be remain limited to four walls but to stand equal with the males. They should also come for their fundamental and initial rights.

She praised all her success to her hard work and the good fostering of her. Sohai’s  family wanted her to be chartered accountant but she wanted to become something with social value which made her to  attempt the CSS exam. She is the first lady officer from lower Sindh.  Sohai had a good command on Sindhi language and poetry and history which made her to achieved top marks in her exams.

She believes that today’s youth has potential to do something if they remain committed to their studies and be sincere with themselves and their parents because no doubt parents playmajor role behind the success of a person as she possess.Success demands persistence, hard work, loyalty and learning from failure and Sohai believes in all. No matter from where you belong believe in yourself!

Effects of social media on self-esteem by Fatima Jawaid

FATIMA JAWAID

2K15/MC/28

ARTILCE

EFFECT OF SOCIAL MEDIA ON SELF-ESTEEM

Socialmedia have been the most controversial topic in this era. With the availability of social media everyone is easily interacted to each other and in result people are making each other feel down. Either person himself is feeling insecure or making other down by posting online stuff.

Social media is constantly putting a question in teens mind. Why nobody is not noticing me? Why I don’t have that much likes? Why my life is not perfect as of them? Why that someone special did not react on my post? Why nobody gives me comments full of praise? This constant torture of looking ‘PERFECT’ is actually destroying the self-esteem of today’s generation. Yes, social media do have the severe effects on one’s own self esteem. Due to the constant exposure of using Social media one definitely thinks about himself. The globe of social media is growing larger and strong by introducing many social Apps. Themost used Facebook, Instagram, Snap chat, LinkedIn, Twitter are getting highly popular and used in past few decades.

Every now and then people are posting pictures of their touristing stuff, or if they are travelling and especially if anyone is getting married that Shadi stuff is definitely creating frustration.

The battles for likes is always an issue, comparing own self with other and feeling down that may be I am not that much worthy as others.  Social media is having a negative exposure by creating anxiety, depression, frustration, anger, low self-confidence. The advertisements and sponsors are also having a effect on mind to buy that product if especially it is in picture of your favoritepersonality.

We actually forget that nothing is perfect; especially what is displayed in public is not always true. Many times people are just showing off as if they are leading a very happy successful life but in real nothing is like that. Even our friends and family are only posting the best of themselves. Nobody is real. Nobody post their downfall.  Despite of knowing this that social media is creating depression and anger we still keep on checking and scrolling our news feed and peoples profiles, Instagram just to know and be updated at what place someone has reached.

Social media also leads to false connections and false relationships which is also on the other side a cause of depression, anger, sleeping problems, anxiety and loosing of self-worth. In short everyone is running behind one another for PERFECTION on social media.  Most of the times jealousy is also a factor behind not liking or commenting in someone’s post just because we only want ourselves to be successful and not ready to accept others as successful. One more word recently on  social media has been viral as ‘’GOALS’’ like people are running after other for these goals it can be relationship goals, friendship goals, study goals, life partner goals, family goals, or travelling goals. These Goals are also another cause of causing depression when we see ourselves unable to achieve these goals and other people enjoying and posting their goals stuff on Facebook and other sites. However, it doesn’t mean that social media only have negative aspects; many people are also getting famous by making vines and mimicry.

All in last, social media has both negative and positive aspects on self-esteem and self-confidenceit’snow up to us to not let it rule on us.